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Why Men Marry Bitches by Sherry Argov (Book Review)

Title: Why Men Marry Bitches
Author: Sherry Argov
Ratings: 5/5

The first time I read the first 55 pages of this book was in 2008 and the reason why I bought the first book “Why Men LOVE Bitches” by the same author and I thought I should read the second book next but I just had the chance to read this because its my sister’s gift to me. (Thank you dear sisters!)

Anyhow, (enough of the personal stuff! : p I just can’t contain it because its one of the books in my wish list :DD) of course this book is EPIC! It’s the wife material cheat sheets I should say. I ended up smiling, giggling, laughing, nodding, agreeing and I have connected the dots on why the past relationships that I had didn’t work out. Its like answering all the unanswered questions that a girl can have after break up or when things are getting rough between her and her love. It’s really one of a kind book. Every girl should read this because EVERYONE should be appreciated and every girl should get what they deserve in a relationship.

As I was reading it, I realized how my own mom is also a BITCH herself. BITCH means Babe In Total Control of Herself. Its something very inspiring actually. Because I also realized that no matter what, you just have to be yourself and enjoy your life as it is and the rest will just follow. I also thought that every girl shouldn’t lower their standards to be treated right by a guy. Being the BITCH is really not easy because since you must be true to yourself, that means, some people wouldn’t like you (because you can’t please everyone) and each person has a desire to be loved by everyone so its something that is a bit hard. It also says there,”Better be hated for who you are than be loved for who you are not” which is true and besides, if someone would love you amidst those negative side about you, it’ll be very liberating and you’d definitely be happy in the end.

Another nice thing she said:

“Cover the pot, let it simmer and bring to boil”

This is the feelings of the guys toward you. If it’s prematurely cooked, it’ll not taste good. Girls should give the timing to the guys. It’s their call anyways, all we have to do is wait for them to treat us right if not, why should we settle for them right?

“Respect oneself above all”
Once you learn to love and respect yourself more, the more respect he is to give you as well. He needs a woman who wouldn’t just take a damn and a “yes girl” is a boring woman for them. Learn to say no and stand for yourself. Have your own word and your opinion on things. Don’t just say “yes” even if you meant “no”.

Embrace the “Mean Girl” in you. 🙂

“Don’t pretend to be the girlfriend” – Exactly. lol (guilty mode.haha!)

This maybe summarizes everything in the book:

“Women fall in love by man’s presence but men tend to realize they are in love in a woman’s absence”

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